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#1 Love story (Part 1)

From now on, I am gonna share with you. The real life “love” stories based on real incidents. So, let’s begin. I am sharing this story of my school friend. I will be narrating the story as a protagonist, so don’t mistake that’s mine. I will share mine too “someday”. 🙂 Enjoy!!

I was born and raised in a middle class family. As my father is in armed forces, I was raised with discipline. So, I had no time to indulge in any of the “wrong acts”. Also, I was a sincere student and rather say studious as I wanted to settle down my career as early as possible. You can say kinda “nerd”. I am quite formal I guess which turns off girls that’s my guess too. But, when I am with guys I am at cloud 9.

Now, here comes the love part.

Hmmm, back then I had crushes in school. But, as I said I didn’t want to be distracted in any way. So, I restrained myself. And fortunately, I got into a government college to pursue “ENGINEERING”. I thought that something would change. But to my dismay, there also the same routine followed. Studying, eating, sleeping, porn(my savior) – repeat. This was my cycle. No love was there in my story until I met “her”.

“HER”

She was quite an introvert and this intrigued me. She was not the usual girl. She didn’t had friends. She was a lone wolf. No talking, no chatting, no pictures. Opposite of social butterfly you may call her. This was she. We started to talk about notes. And we continued to talk later on about “notes” only. She took my number and used to ping me for “notes” in exam time. Sometimes, I wished that she should ping me for “just talking or rather sharing what she feels, how she perceive things..etc”. But that day didn’t come. We continued in this way. As the time passed, my feeling for her got strong. I don’t know how, why, what but all I know was yes “I am feeling IT”. My heart started racing when I saw her or even her message. She started having a sheer percentage of my thoughts.

I restrained as I wanted to focus on studies. But, it was hard. Really, hard for me to control that outburst. So, one fine dark night, when all the world was sleeping tight, me and my feelings were awake. And somehow my feelings convinced me to confess her what I feel. So, I did surgical strike. I messaged her at 3 AM. Maybe I should say “paragraphed” her. Long long texts. Now, came the tough part.

It was really hard to be patient and wait for seen and reply. I crossed my fingers. There was no sight of dizziness at 4 AM, no worry of any hunger either, I was just worried about my “result”. I was so tensed. It felt like I have murdered someone. And yes, do I told you “It was my first proposal and confession ever!!”. I waited, and waited, and waited. Then at around 1 PM my message was seen.

Do you want to have part 2? Tell me in comments. Till then take care and thanks for reading. 🙂

 

 

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Oh! Desire…..

  • Many are the inaccessible and perilous places I have travelled and yet obtained no riches; sacrificing proper dignity of birth and social position, in vain have I served the rich; like the crows have I fed myself, devoid of self-respect, at the house of others in the expectation of gain; and yet, oh! Desire, thou prompter of evil deeds, thou art waxing lustier and art not still satisfied.
  • The earth have I digged into in quest of precious minerals, and metals from rocks have I smelted; the ocean have I crossed, and the favour of kings have I diligently sought; nights have I spent on burning grounds with my mind occupied with mantras and worship;1 and not even a broken cowrie have I obtained; be satisfied, therefore, oh Desire!
  • In our servile attendance on the (wealthy) wicked, their shabby manners and talk we have somehow put up with; suppressing tears that welled up from our hearts,
    we have smiled out of vacant minds; obeisance we have made to dullards stultified by too much wealth; in what more fooleries wouldst thou have me dance, oh Desire, thou of ungratified yearning!
  • What have we not endeavoured to do, with our depraved conscience, for the sake of our pránas (five vital forces) which are unreliable and compared to water on the
    leaves of a lotus, since in the presence of the rich, with their minds stupefied by the pride of wealth, we have shamelessly committed the sin of recounting our own merits! [According to the scriptures, self-glorification is tantamount even to the sin of suicide.]
  • We have forgiven, but not out of forgiveness (but out of our incapacity to right our wrongs); we have renounced the comforts of home life, but not out of contentment after satisfaction (but as an exile from home in quest of riches); though we have suffered inclemencies of weather, cold and heat so difficult to bear, still it is not religious austerities that we have undergone; with subdued vital forces, night and day have we brooded on money and not on the feet of Lord Siva; thus we have performed those very acts which the munis (saintly recluses) do perform, but of their good effects we have deprived ourselves.
  • Worldly pleasures have not been enjoyed by us, but we ourselves have been devoured; no religious austerities have been performed, but we ourselves have become scorched; time is not gone (being ever present and infinite), but we ourselves are gone (because of approaching death). Desire is not reduced in force, though we ourselves are reduced to senility.
  • The face has been attacked with wrinkles, the head has been painted white with grey hair, the limbs are all enfeebled; but desire alone is rejuvenating.
  • Though my compeers, dear to me as life, have all taken such a speedy flight to heaven (before being overtaken by old age); though the impulse for enjoyment is wearied out and the respect commanded from all persons lost; though my sight is obstructed by deep blindness (or cataract) and the body can raise itself but slowly on the staff; still, alas for its silliness, this body startles at the thought of dissolution by death!
  • I do not find the virtuous distinction produced (by ceremonial observances) through life after life to be conducive to well-being, for the sum of such virtuous merits when weighed in mind inspires fear in me. Enjoyments earned by great accession of merit, multiply so greatly in the case of people attached to them, only to bring them misery and peril!
  • The objects of enjoyment, even after staying with us for a long time, are sure to leave us sometime; then what difference does their privation in this way make to men, that they do not of their own accord discard them? If the enjoyments leave us on their own initiative, i.e., if they tear themselves from us, they produce great affliction of the mind; but if men voluntarily renounce them, they conduce to the eternal bliss of self-possession.
  • When the mouth is parched with thirst, man takes some cold refreshing (or sweetened) drink; when suffering from hunger he swallows boiled rice made delicious with meat and the like; when set on fire by lust, he fast embraces his wife; so happiness is but remedying these diseases (of hunger, thirst and lust); and behold, how man (i.e., his sense) is upset in its quest!
  • In enjoyment, there is the fear of disease; in social position, the fear of falling-off; in wealth, the fear of (hostile) kings; in honour, the fear of humiliation; in power, the fear of enemies; in beauty, the fear of old age; in scriptural erudition, the fear of opponents; in virtue, the fear of traducers; in body, the fear of death. All the things of this world pertaining to man are attended with fear; renunciation alone stands for fearlessness.

– VAIRÁGYA-SATAKAM OF BHARTÌHARI

If you are fearful of falling in love, then….

Hi 🙂

I will not preach anything as I don’t have any authority to do so. But, as a friend I want to converse with you.

You know what “I KNOW YOU”. Yes, “YOU”. Don’t be shocked. I just know “what you want”. The answer is “LOVE/HAPPINESS”.

“LOVE” is synonym of “HAPPINESS” or vice-versa. Don’t separate them.

Now, we come to “our” title. “If you are fearful of falling in love, then….”, you shouldn’t be. It’s funny. Don’t be scared.

“WHY?”

The reason is quite simple. “YOU WANT HAPPINESS, RIGHT?”. Therefore, you shouldn’t be fearful of falling in “love” as this is the only way to reach “happiness”.

BUT… WAIT

I told you “I know you”. So, I know your subconscious mind too. “He is not fearful of falling in love, rather he is fearful of falling in love with “wrong” person.” Right? You have bitter experience of “LOVE”. So, you don’t want to get hurt again.

Now, question arises about how come we find the “right” one???

Answer is simple and already before you. But, you don’t accept. If you don’t know then just ponder on “WHO LOVES ME MOST??”. It’s a hint.

Till then, take care.

Your dear friend. 🙂

 

 

TRUE VIRTUES

Charity – Non-violence
Austerity – Renunciation of desires
Happiness – Beyond pain and pleasure
Beauty – Lies in virtues
Scholar – Distinguishes between bondage and liberation
Wrong – Disturbance in mind
Right – Leads to lord
Friend – Teacher
Misery – Sensual pleasure
Purity – Non-attachment
Honesty – Equal eye for all
Poor – Discontented
Calmness – Attachment in lord
Fortitude – Bearing grief
Patience – Control over tongue and sexual impulses
Mean – Not master of senses
Rich – Rich in virtues
Body – Home
Valour – Conquest of one’s nature
Heaven – Sattva in mind
Fool – Identification with body
Shyness – Abstinence from evil deeds
Profit – Devotion in lord
Money – Dharma
– LORD KRISHNA 
BHAGVAT MAHAPURAN
Vande Jagatgurum 

A test to check your present state !!

Sometimes, we like to check our state that where we are right now. So, here is a test to do so.

“A man who listen, speak and contemplate “bad” has a vice in heart”

  1. If you enjoy listening “bad” which in turn means you love listening gossips, listening ill of others, and listening bad stuffs then you are at low level.
  2. If you enjoy speaking “bad” which includes bitching, saying untruth, gossiping, and use of harsh words then you know now where you are.
  3. If you contemplate “bad” which means you think bad things (you know what it means), ill of others, sexuality all the time, etc. then you are at rock bottom.

So, now you know 3 checks to analyse yourself. As a gist : LISTEN GOOD, SPEAK GOOD AND THINK GOOD AS IT MAKES YOU REALLY GOOD

Thankyou for reading !!!

 

 

कौन है श्रेष्ठ ?

#कौन है श्रेष्ठ ?
सूचना- अगर आपके पास समय हो तोह ही पढ़े।
आज के समय में श्रेष्ठ उसे मानते है जो धनवान हो, बलवान हो, या उस में कोई अन्य गुण हो। पर श्रेष्ठता का ये मापक पूर्णतः उच्चित नहीं। ऐसा क्यों ?
इसका कारण है कि गुणों से कोई श्रेष्ठ नहीं होता। श्रेष्ठ होते है आचार, व्यव्हार, आचरण, शीलता से। अक्सर कभी ध्यान दिजियेगा कि जिसमे जो गुण होगा उसमे उस गुण का अहंकार अपने आप जन्म लेगा और ये भी विदित है कि जहाँ अहंकार जन्म लेगा वहाँ विनाश निश्चित है।
श्रेष्ठता अगर आपको देखनी है तोह आप भगवान राम, कृष्ण और शिव को देखिये। उनमे विश्व के सारे गुण समाहित है पर वो अहंकारी नहीं वही वो उतने ही प्रेम, दया और परोपकार के स्वरुप है।
-भगवान राम जिन्हे अगले दिन राज्य मिलना था पर वनवास मिला इसको भी उन्होंने सहर्ष स्वीकार किया। अपने कुल अपने पिता कि मर्यादा रखी। इस लिए वो श्रेष्ठ है। पराक्रम और सौर्य उनके गुण थे पर उनकी शीलता उनको श्रेष्ठ बनती है। पराक्रमी बहुत हुए है पर शील धारण करने वाले बहुत कम।
-इस समूचे जगत को धारण करते है वो भगवान श्री कृष्ण गोपिकाओ के दास बनते है क्यों? उनके पास असीम शक्ति है, स्वयं लक्ष्मी जिनकी अर्धांग्नी है उन्हें किसीसे क्या प्रलोभन पर फिर भी वो गोपिकाओ के प्रेम के सामने झुकते है। हममे अगर जरा सी भी अच्छाई हो या जरा सा भी सामर्थ हो तोह हम अपने आपको अदिव्तीय मानते है, किसी के सामने झुकते नहीं और अहंकार से विसीभूत होजाते है। यही अंतर है श्रेष्ठ भगवान कृष्ण में और गुणों से सम्पन मानव में।
-हमारे पास सामर्थ हो या धन हो या कोई गुण हो तोभी हम किसी मददगार कि मदद से पीछे हट जाते है और वही भगवान महादेव स्वयं विष का पान करके अमृत बाट देते है। ये है श्रेष्ठता असली श्रेष्ठता।
अब कई लोग ईश्वर को मानते नहीं तोह भी आप सिद्धांतो को जरूर मानते होंगे आप भी अच्छाइयों को स्वीकारते होंगे तोह बस इन् वर्तन्तो को कहानी समझ के स्वीकार करे। 🤗
मै गुणों की निंदा नहीं करता। गुण तोह प्रशंसनीय है ही पर गुण श्रेष्ठ नहीं बनाते। श्रेष्ठ आपको आपका व्यव्हार,प्रेम,दया,झमा,आचरण बनाते है। और हा गुणों का अगर आपको अभिमान है तोह चिंता न करे वो अहंकार जल्द ही खत्म हो जायेगा। 😊

Why we are away from peace and how to get it back???

A common man is unable to answer such insightful question so we should resort or have guidance from our ancient wisdom. There is a simple procedure that how we lose our peace and how we can get it back.

  • While contemplating on the objects of the senses, one develops attachment to them. Attachment leads to desire, and from desire arises anger.
  • Anger leads to clouding of judgment, which results in bewilderment of the memory. When the memory is bewildered, the intellect gets destroyed; and when the intellect is destroyed, one is ruined.

This is how we lose peace.

Now, how we can have it back.

One who is bereft of self-control cannot attain wisdom. Without wisdom one can never meditate. One who cannot meditate cannot achieve peace, and without peace how can one attain happiness?

SELF CONTROL

Control your senses. We are been tormented by our own senses. Just control them. And you know that you have to fight or wage a war against them. Don’t worry your victory is guaranteed as you are a DIVINE SPARK. No vice can defile  you.

RISE AND FIGHT……………

YOUR PROBLEM!!!

Basically, we all have problems but there is a major problem which we all face commonly.

What’s it?? Any Guesses…………There may be many answers to this question too.

Here is an answer to this

TOO MUCH TIME

Most of us kill or find a way to kill time…….it may be by watching movies, doing our work or listening music……….we have plenty of time to spare and we don’t know how to utilise that time………we are restless because of that………

NOW how to solve this problem

I even don’t know perfectly. But i know a place or domain where you or i can get the answer…….and that is spirituality.

The person who can believe is the only one who can conceive.

NOBLE WAY TO CROSS THIS WORLD!!!!!!!!

These two verses of great saint gives us a way to lead our lives!!!!!!!!!!

  • One should chant the holy name of the Lord in a humble state of mind, thinking oneself lower than the straw in the street; one should be more tolerant than a tree, devoid of all sense of false prestige and should be ready to offer all respect to others. In such a state of mind one can chant the holy name of the Lord constantly.
  • I know no one my Lord, and He shall remain so even if He handles me roughly by His embrace or makes me brokenhearted by not being present before me. He is completely free to do anything and everything, for He is always my worshipful Lord unconditionally.

SURRENDER your ego to divinity. That’s all about spirituality or religion.

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